illegally blonde

Some guys who are reading this are saying, “That’s not me! I think it’s gonna last ‘cause I love her. The way I feel is amazing. She is the one.” Okay, I’ll give you that one. You do feel like it will last forever, so let’s talk about that feeling. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you get butterflies in her presence, your palms sweat. You feel like a total dork and it feels great. Newsflash for you: This isn’t love. It’s somebody else besides your mother thinking you are cool. And it’s an amazing feeling. Don’t get me wrong. I did it just as much as you do. But don’t confuse the feeling with love. Love doesn’t feel all mushy. Love isn’t sweaty palms and sleepless nights. Love is a decision you make to care for someone no matter how you feel. If they are disfigured in an accident or throwing up for hours on end, you will still love them.

—Justin Lookadoo (via popscenealright)

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